Monday, February 25, 2013

Que Paso!


Dear Family,
It's been a great week! Transfer meeting was this week...The higher-ups have banished me to YUMA! Haha I love it down here. And with companion that I already had about a year ago. He's awesome! We get along great and I feel like he empowers me, as in he helps me to reach my potential. My companion from Mexico is down here too! The area is way cool, the small town has a lot of personality. I know that a lot of Arizonans don't give this place much credit, but for a missionary it's a blast. We're working with a lot of people in this area who are progressing well toward baptism, and are overall more receptive to the restored Gospel. One middle-aged guy we're teaching "was" Buddhist, and comes from a family that has been Buddhist for generations. And he's a really smart guy who thinks deeply about things. Well he referred himself to the missionaries to find out a little more, and after several visits he finally decided to have a heart-to-heart with God in prayer, and suddenly he saw doors being opened that were basically miracles for him. Apparently after that experience he told the missionaries, "Hey, pencil me in for baptism - no, sharpie me in!" He kinda reminds me of Uncle Mike actually. Great guy.
We're teaching a handful of other people that I haven't been able to get to know very well because of my short time here, but I feel a lot of enthusiasm. Our zone only has 12 missionaries, all of which are Spanish-speaking except 2, and there's a lot of unity among us. I've  been more pro-active while interacting with potential investigators, and bearing my testimony is a lot of fun. Sometimes I mention you, Dad, just how you were blessed in so many ways by seeking truth and following it. Something I've been realizing over the last several weeks is how we must hand over our will to God. And how what we want doesn't really matter if it's not what God wants. I'm learning the importance of searching to know God's will and do it, and I try to teach that to others. Really that's how people learn our message, by asking God, listening with their heart, and acting on what they feel. It keeps us alive spiritually, and keeps us close to our Father.
Funny story I heard today. A missionary left a street contact with a scripture to share, but there was misunderstanding. So instead of 1 Nephi 3:7, the man read 3 Nephi 3:7. And when the missionary returned, the man said that he didn't want to talk to them at all anymore. The missionary was really confused and read the scripture in 3 Nephi and realized the mistake. You gotta read that verse, it's hilarious.
Well, thank you so much for everything. That's about all I got now, or all I can remember. The mission just got a lot more exciting :) I love you all, have a great week!

Elder Gathro

Monday, February 18, 2013

Miracles


Dear Family,
Transfer calls came last night...am I staying or leaving? I'll tell you further in the letter.
So it has been an eventful week. I told you last week about our investigator who got scared about baptism by his dad and that things were a little shaky with them. Well it didn't last long. We had a Family Home Evening at our relief society president's house, with the bishop and his wife there as well. We watched the hour long Joseph Smith movie and had a mini impromptu testimony meeting afterward that was very spiritual and powerful. Our investigator - Tygart, 14 yrs old - was confident that this was what God wanted for his life, even though his grandparents have almost disowned him and the dad is very skeptical. But we were able to see him everyday this week, and one night I talked to the dad, man to man :) and it was a really good conversation. The baptism was this past Saturday and he was confirmed yesterday. My companion Elder Hernandez gave an outstanding talk which even led Tygart's dad to cry. It was a happy weekend. Oh, and get this. So an investigator that my companion taught in one of his old areas finally got permission from President Monson to be baptized, despite some serious things with the law. Our mission president gave us permission to return for the baptismal service, and a member couple drove us down and back (2 hour round trip). It was a really uplifting experience as well, and for the member too. He was preparing for a talk that he gave yesterday and said that he received a lot of revelation that afternoon. I know he was blessed for his apparent sacrifice.
The Dominicano who will be baptized this coming weekend had a miracle also happen this weekend. So we taught him the Word of Wisdom last week and gave him a blessing to withstand temptation and be able to live this commandment. He was very sincere and knew that he needed to quit. Well he's a baseball player and was playing on Saturday night and gave in to a desire for chewing tobacco. So he put some in his mouth and immediately had an urge to vomit! He couldn't use it anymore. He is done for sure! And he knows that God is helping him stay on this path. It was a miracle no doubt. Just like Mom said, miracles are still happening today. God is still our loving Father. It is amazing to see and they strengthen my faith.
Returning to the other big piece of news, my time in Mesa has come to an end. I'm being transfered! And there are only two other Spanish ZL areas, and most likely I'm going to Yuma! That would be a blast! And I would be with my previous companion Elder Sawyer, who is like a best friend. I'll let you know where I am next week, but hold off an any mail till then...in case someone was planning on sending any, haha.
Ok one more thing and then I gotta sign out. So it's a very common occurrence in this mission for members to pay for you when they see you in a restaurant. Especially in Gilbert where there are so many members. Well my comp and I had to visit some companionships out in Gilbert on Saturday and when we finished it was already lunchtime, so we figured we'd go out with a companionship and "faith-dine." That's a missionary term meaning to have faith that a member will offer to pay. We picked Cafe Rio where members always go to eat. And walking in things looked good, some BYU logos, a member saying "Hey Elders." But coming to the cash register, nothing. Haha it was probably just our luck and punishment for our conniving ideas. But it was a delicious meal nonetheless.
Oh, I almost forgot, one of our investigators gave us like 8 bottles of her alcohol so us to dispose of. So we brought it back to the house and poured it all down the sink. It smelt terrible! So disgusting. We made a few videos too. Don't worry, Mom, I'm taking photos. I'll send them to you when I can.
Well I love you all so much. Thank you for everything. Have a great week!

Elder Gathro

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

"So much time, so little to do - strike that, reverse it


Dear Family,
So this morning my companion and an elder we live with went to get haircuts from a member and it ended up taking a few hours, and we still have several things to do today. So I don't have much time to write. I thank you so much for your letters, for your support, and your faith. I'll reply back to Tyler's letter next week. Dad, you have a good point that I have felt as well. It's hard to put into practice so many things that I have learned, all at one time. Mom, hang in there. Disappointments are bound to happen. Difficulty is necessary. But keep your eye on the Savior and seek encouragement from His example and His words. As President Monson says, we must never forget during challenging times that Heavenly Father has not left us alone. Remind me and I'll share more thoughts next week if you'd like.
Well we had zone conference this week which was outstanding. We also had some setbacks, but at the same time we saw some miracles. The investigator from the Dominican Republic that I mentioned wants to be baptized on the 23rd. He's so solid, very sincere, and a great guy. It's a joy to watch him embrace the Gospel as he is. We met with some other people that are progressing along really well. One of them just got scared out of baptism last night by his dad. Even though we tried hard to involve the father in everything, he still has fear that he will be loosing his wife and son. Please pray for their family.
I have to finish up already. I love you all. Even though hard times come, we can have hope for a brighter world. Ether 12:4. Thank you for everything. I'll talk to you next week!

Love,
Elder Gathro

Monday, February 4, 2013

Spring Time


Hey Fam,
I dont know it the groundhog saw his shadow or not, but It already feels like springtime. The weather here is perfecto! I woke up a bit chilly from the fan so I started my run with a hoodie, but it seems like I don't need that anymore. What's the weather like there? We picked up a new investigator this week, who I think I already mentioned, and he's from the Dominican Republic. He says that it's a super cheap flight down there and the exchange rate makes the dollar worth way more, and the environment is beautiful. Maybe if you guys have the family reunion down there I'll come along :)
This week was pretty eventful. So on Tuesday Elder Hdez and I walk into the English class and within minutes get a call that a member of our zone had a nasty bike accident and was shaking like crazy. So we peeled out of the church parking lot headed to the accident site and ended up following the ambulance to a local hospital. Our mission mom met us there as well. He hit his head pretty bad but he's doing a lot better since the crash. It was kinda scary for a bit though. We ended up giving like 3 blessings while we were at the hospital. And I think we administered like 3 other blessings this week. A lot of people have been sick recently.
We've been trying to find more people to teach through Saturday soccer games at a park adjacent to the church, but despite the perfect weather, we only had one person come, a 19-yr-old investigator we have. So we kicked the ball around for quite a while then slowed it down and ended up talking about Gospel topics. It was a really unique setting, just chilling on the grass and chatting about the Gospel, like about things really important and moving. And the kid was really thinking deeply about what we were saying. We could all feel the Spirit. It was a sweet experience. Combined with other recent teaching experiences it has made me think more about the need to receive answers from God. We always invite people to pray about our message, which is such a simple thing, and yet people are reluctant or hesitant to do it. It's sad and often frustrating. Yesterday while visiting someone we asked if they would be willing to make changes in their life when they know that our message is true. She hesitated a lot and didn't seem on board. It seems to me that if we have faith in Christ, and if we really believe Him, then we will be willing to go wherever he takes us. We can have confidence that despite the unknown, God will guide us in true faiths. It's challenging to help people understand and act. But I know that the Spirit is helping us in our efforts. This work is true. Our Father has a plan for His children. It's a thrill to be a part of this work. I pray for each of you and wish you a happy week. Thanks for everything!

Much love,
Elder Gathro